Stop ‘Shoulding’ Yourself: Why Your Ideal Self Is Holding You Back

The Person You Think You "Should" Be Is Blocking Who You Are. We spend years chasing a version of ourselves we were taught to become. The responsible one. The calm one. The always-put-together one. The one who never falters, never slips, never lets the mask crack. But here's the truth nobody tells you: The person… Continue reading Stop ‘Shoulding’ Yourself: Why Your Ideal Self Is Holding You Back

Transform Reactions: The 3-Breath Reset Method

Ever notice how your chest tightens the moment someone gives you feedback? Or how your throat closes up when you need to set a boundary? You know logically that you're safe. You know the person isn't attacking you. You know you should be able to handle this like an adult. But your body has already… Continue reading Transform Reactions: The 3-Breath Reset Method