Something rare is happening right now. On December 19, we moved through the final New Moon of 2025; the last dark moon before the year turns. On December 21, we arrive at the Winter Solstice. It is the longest night of the year. This is the moment when the sun appears to pause before the… Continue reading Pause and Reflect: New Moon Meets Winter Solstice
Tag: personal-growth
Stop ‘Shoulding’ Yourself: Why Your Ideal Self Is Holding You Back
The Person You Think You "Should" Be Is Blocking Who You Are. We spend years chasing a version of ourselves we were taught to become. The responsible one. The calm one. The always-put-together one. The one who never falters, never slips, never lets the mask crack. But here's the truth nobody tells you: The person… Continue reading Stop ‘Shoulding’ Yourself: Why Your Ideal Self Is Holding You Back
The 5 Patterns That Keep You Stuck (And How to Break Free)
You've done the therapy. Read the books. Tried the mindset work. You know what you need to do. You understand the concepts. You can even coach others through their challenges. But when it comes to your own patterns? You're still stuck. Not because you're not smart enough. Not because you're not trying hard enough. Because… Continue reading The 5 Patterns That Keep You Stuck (And How to Break Free)
Understanding Your Inner Child and Stopping Self-Abandonment
What happens when you finally listen to your inner child—and stop abandoning yourself? Here’s how freedom begins from within.
5 Signals from Your Inner Child That Need Attention
Have you ever had a reaction that surprised even you? A wave of emotion that felt way bigger than the situation warranted? Or maybe you find yourself stuck in the same painful patterns, wondering why you can't seem to break free? These aren't signs that something is wrong with you. They are signs that your… Continue reading 5 Signals from Your Inner Child That Need Attention
Navigating Anger and Healing After Hurt
There are moments in life when the unimaginable happens. It does not happen to us directly, but to someone we love more fiercely than ourselves. When I recently learned that someone hurt my daughter, a wave of emotions surged through me. It was so strong that my entire body was on fire. Anger. Rage. A… Continue reading Navigating Anger and Healing After Hurt
The Power of Compassion in Conflict Resolution
During election seasons, judgment grows louder, division deepens, and people stop listening and start labeling. But politics isn't the only place where division festers. We see it when:- A friend shares a strong opinion about parenting, and others feel silently judged.- A colleague expresses burnout at work, and someone else responds, "Well, I managed—why can't… Continue reading The Power of Compassion in Conflict Resolution
Growth Through Remembering: Embrace Your True Self
Introduction: What If Growth Isn’t About Reinvention? We live in a world obsessed with self-improvement, reinvention, and upgrading our lives. But what if true growth isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about becoming who you already are? Spring teaches us this beautifully. The flower isn’t becoming something new—it’s simply blooming into what it was always meant… Continue reading Growth Through Remembering: Embrace Your True Self
The Power of 1%: Small Changes, Big Impact
Transformation often comes from small, consistent actions rather than drastic changes. Emphasizing daily 1% improvements can lead to significant growth over time. Approaching new habits by starting with tiny, manageable steps reduces hesitation and builds confidence. Ultimately, the cumulative effects of small changes yield powerful results, fostering a sustainable path to transformation.
Embrace Renewal: Letting Go for Personal Growth
As spring approaches, renewal invites personal transformation. Letting go of emotional baggage, physical clutter, and limiting beliefs fosters growth and clarity. Mindfully releasing old energies creates space for new opportunities. Engaging in practices like decluttering, journaling, and meditation promotes openness to renewal, allowing profound transformations and a refreshed spirit.
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